Don't settle for less

In my bed as I was going to sleep I have been recalling the face of my favorite grade school teacher. As I remember, she's pretty, she had a beautiful face, good posture. As I was recalling the face of my teacher a trace of disappointment befell upon me. I had heard that she was separated from her husband. In my mind, I was wondering why could her husband let that happened. Well I don't know the story behind it, or who's fault it is, but my point is, the husband, since he is the guy should never had given up on that marriage. Most of the time and I'm not saying all the time that I felt that it is usually the guy who is to be blame for a wreck marriage. I didn't say that because I'm biased since I'm a girl nor did I say that without a basis. Of course I do had a basis for that... I hear around me how guys both single and married talk about girls. They don't respect girls they talk about girls as if they were just an object to be played at. Married man stills looks to other lady lustfully even a guy who said that he's a Christian was not in anyway different from them -- (HELLO you're professing to be a Christian and yet your actions, the way you talk is very much different from what you are claiming to be). I was just wondering what's running in a guy's mind... When they come to like a lady, they will court the lady and do anything to get their love but in the end they would just broke it. Do guys even feel guilty when they make a girl cry? when they break a lady's heart? Those guys aren't even a real man to speak of. A real man won't do anything to hurt or break a girl's heart. A real man knows how to respect a lady. A real man knows how to wait. A real man knows how to protect, cherish and love a lady. A real man love Jesus Christ first more than anyone. Sad to say but there is only few real man left. Ladies don't settle for less, never give your heart to some jerky guy, give your heart only to real man, A man who deserved it.

- 陳錦錦